A friend is someone we can count on. It may seem like an instinct to make a friend. Imagine seeing a young kid casually making friends with someone their age on the playground. But this does not happen all the time. Making friends require effort, and it can be considered a skill to survive.

If you are worried about your child, here are some signs of having difficulty making friends.

One, they avoid conversations. A huge element in making friends is starting and holding a good conversation. While the normal case of shyness can make them a little hesitant to initiate small talk, going out of their way to avoid talking with others can be indicative of their anxiety issues.
Two, they avoid attention. Being the center of attention can put a lot of pressure on the kid, but others cannot bear to be in it. Attention warrants gaze and conversations that the child has already been avoiding.
Three, they avoid gatherings. When a child feels overwhelmed with gatherings, there may be social issues that need further evaluation. Just like adults, kids with social anxiety can get easily overwhelmed by a crowd.

The best way to help your child is to learn more about them. Our Pediatric Therapy in Riverside, California provides a variety of Developmental Services for your child.

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